Monday, October 13, 2008

42nd Week Here We Come

177 comments:

Leigh Ann said...

Hi everyone!

Stephanie, glad you guys had fun, we did too. And I agree with everyone: your workout on the deck sounded wonderful.

Tina, can't wait to find out how I did on the button quiz! LOL!

Brenda, sounds like you had a busy day on the hill - I bet its beautiful.

Kathi, hope it went smoothly caring for your dad - it's great that you do that.

Marci, won't be long now:D

I will fix everyones tickers through out the day...

Anonymous said...

Good Morning flight crew Leighann ( I love that picture ) and everyone else :D

LOL...I can't wait to see the button results!! And what Paul has done with the Wrather deck!!

Kathi...hope the night was peaceful and that your dad got showered...Yes GO CHARGERS!!

Who else has the day off for the holiday?? Wish I did!!!!!!!!!!

Stephanie said...

I am supposed to be off today, but they need me so decided to come in and take advantage of time and a half! :)

Brenda, I agree with you about the Tai Chi. It is like watching water flow...beautiful!

Leigh Ann said...

Hi Steph...$, yah! We have a binky over here:)

Oh yeah, I will have to get the patio pic up, too.

Tina said...

Morning Ladies! I freakin wish I was off... damn it.

I will wait till end of day today to post the button results...just in case anybody else wants to comment. hahaha.

Brenda - gym schedule this week sucks... I can DEFINATELY do Tuesday, and thats really the only day im sure of. If Fred takes Jenna to her Ortho appt on Weds. then I can go then too. Today and Thursday are out... as its Volleyball and Thursday I have to take our guests from India to dinner and shopping... wheeee.

Anonymous said...

LOL...Tina I love the dinner/shopping thing you do with the India guest LMAO!!!!!!!!! I emailed you my schedule for workouts..this week we are on our own!!

Steph...I LOVE how you described tai chi..water flowing :) That's beautiful!!

Leighann...LOL..hehehe I know who's binky you must have at the house :) very cute!!

glad to hear I'm not the only one working..wtg Steph on the time and a half

Noboyz said...

I am working today as well... but no overtime...
damn! ha

Kathi, I am sure y'alls lives has changed....

Tina & Brenda, how fun Octoberfest looked!!!!
I hope I got the pins right!! LOL

Good morning Steph & Leigh Ann...
can't wait until Saturday evening!!!!

Kathi said...

Tina, don't do a thing with the quiz until after, oh, 6! I wanna make sure I'm home and have enough time to do it, as I'm at my dad's right now and don't have the address to get to your blog (it's bookmarked on MY computer, not my mom/dad's

I don't work, but I'm working

Kathi said...

A month ago today, our lives changed forever...

Anonymous said...

A month ago?? Gosh, it doesn't seem that way..Kathi....Hey on the side bar on this blogger blog...there is a list that says blogs of our members...can't you click on Tina's to get to her blog??

Anonymous said...

i know Marci...no OT here either
:( but the work day for you should be half over, right?? I'm working an hour over, myself :( gotta make up some time due to this Weds needing to step out and take my in laws to the airport...

Tina said...

Kathi... i didnt see your commnet and i put the answers on my blog... so if you wanna play... figure it out BEFORE you look at the post. :o)

Okay Marci and LeighAnn.. results are up! hahahaha!!

LOve ya all! Back to work i go!

Noboyz said...

Yes, I have 2 1/2 hours left of work.... here until 5...
do you get vacation days Brenda?
we are flexible on leaving here.... we don't have to make up... we can just add them up and then use a vacation day...
I'm down to 5 1/2 days left though... and don't get new days until December 1....

Kathi, I can't believe it has been a month! that is just so unreal....

Kathi said...

Tina, you said you'd put the results at the end of the day; it's only 1:15 in the afternoon (?)

Leigh Ann said...

Kathi you can still guess...just don't click the comments until your done...

Anonymous said...

Hey Marci...yes...we get vacation days here...but I normally use them up by the end of the year...LOL...it's like candy or money...can't hang onto them..so things like this...I make up the time...or go without pay...I LOVE flex hours too...we get those!!

Awww Kathi she did it too fast :( Well...still guess and put your answers here on thsi blog :)

Kathi said...

I know, Marci; it is unreal; I still want to believe that she's gonna walk through the garage or the front door any second now; or when I'm at the dinette set, tell me to "push in", so she can get by...

Kathi said...

Here's my guess...

Top Left is Brenda
Top Right is Steve
Bot left is Tina
Bot right is Fred

I'm gonna go look on the comments and see if I'm right

Tina said...

HAHAHA!! Too funny! Well i posted the picture slide show now ladies... and you can see we are wearing our buttons!!

Kathi said...

WOW; got them all wrong :(; Brenda, I'm gonna have to spend more time with you guys :D;

Hey, and I think I can go shopping this afternoon if you're free...tomorrow, I'll have to wait till the evening since I have an appt at 2; and then Wed. I'm back up here at Dad's; I'm gonna go to the doc with my sil and dad first, then they'll take me home; how about i call you when i get home?

Leigh Ann said...

I have updated all the tickers - great job ladies!

Kathi said...

and LA, stress level is a little high today with dealing w/dad; not sharing specifically what we're dealing with, but it's not good

Leigh Ann said...

Kathi,
No worries...priorities, I understand. Wish there was something I could do.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry Kathi for all you're dealing with...I'm not available to get you to the store this week
:( But I can next Tuesday...I'm sure you will need things before then...but if you'd like to go out next Tuesday...let me know so I can write it down and not make plans, ok

Kathi said...

That's alright; I can get my ihss worker up here and take me; thank you anyway; yeah, I'm absolutely gonna need to go before next week...lol

Leigh Ann said...

Hi all...

Packing up here to head out tomorrow...

Tori and JaVonte left earlier - it was sad...

I put up my fall decorations tonight...

Took Tori to the doctor and they think she may have ADHD and/or possibly be bi-polar. I was very proud of her for talking openly at lunch yesterday with everyone and voicing her concerns. We made the appointment and went this morning. What can I say? I have been so worried my entire life that I could be diagnosed with this that I underestimated its power on my children. I wish I could have it and not her...

She is doing good - not freaking out too much - but, please keep this among us. She has an appointment with a therapist up there at school in a couple of weeks. We will take it one day at a time. I am so grateful that she felt comfortable to talk about this with me and Paul - even JaVonte. Please say some prayers for her.

Kathi said...

I definitely will, Leigh Ann; you don't want bi-polar, LA; my friend has it and it's sometimes difficult dealing with her, but I do, because she's my friend and we've known each other for 19 years

My dad said today that he wants to go through Mom's closet and get rid of her clothes, and I just about had a meltdown; I didn't say anything, but I think all four of us should go through it WHEN WE'RE READY; god, is that gonna ROUGH to do ....I am so not looking forward to that; my sister has all of her medicine, so all of the cabinets in her bathroom are cleared, and I broke down about that; it's becoming real and I don't want it to yet

Anonymous said...

Leighann...I admire Tori right now more than ever...she's still considered that tender age...yet, there she was...so open with those she loves...You and Paul taught her that..you've taught her so much about life, how to live and struggles...so many things...and with that...I'm sure she's going to do just fine :) Unlike generations before her...it was an unknown...the families and medical communities didn't have the knowledge and support for it ...Lot's of love and prayers for her and your family :)

Anonymous said...

Kathi...I'm sure that's a very hard spot in your grieving process...is your dad's condition something that should put a temporary halt to the emptying of mom's things so soon?? Everyone and their families are different but if he really didn't grasp why he was wearing a suit (at your mom's services) then maybe he doesn't grasp this...Just a thought ...so sad for you!!!

Kathi said...

I think so, Bren, now that you mention it; I don't think he grasps the impact it'll have on the four of us...just like at the service, and preparation beforehand, he didn't grasp what or why we were doing it

I'm am seriously having a breakdown right now; I'm having my ihss worker come up NOW and we're gonna go to Denny's or somewhere; just to get out of the house...and that's only if her f***ing controlling b/f lets her; sorry for the harsh word, girls, but that's exactly how I'm feeling.....I did take two ativan about 20 minutes ago, so I'm calmer (and getting sleepy), but I still want to get out. I was gonna go and walk the streets, but she talked me out of that, so I am still here at home

Stephanie said...

Well, early diagnosis is good, Leigh Ann. Of course, nothing changes our love of Tori, nor our support. We are here if you need us.

Stephanie said...

Kathi, all bad stuff you are going through, that you don't really know what to say that would make a person feel better. Just know we are here when you need to talk. :)

Kathi said...

I know, thanks Steph; I do feel a bit better now that my friend (ihss worker) came up; we ended up at Denny's and just PIGGED OUT; felt good.... now it's n'night time; talk to you guys in the morning

Tina said...

Morning Ladies...

Our love and support to Tori, LeighAnn. Shes a smart and beautiful young woman.

Kathi - I hope your days get better soon

Hi Brenda and Steph and Marci!! Love to ya all

Leigh Ann said...

Good Morning,

Thanks everyone for your support of Tori.

Kathi, hope today is better.

Heading out to Alabama:) Talk to you guys later.

Anonymous said...

good morning everyone :) hope everyone has a good day!!! Have a safe drive Leighann

Noboyz said...

Leigh Ann, gosh that post on Tori... I told Mike last night I think Sam has bi polar. email me...

Love to all of you!!!!

Kathi, hoping your day is a good one.. stay strong..

Kathi said...

I will, thanks, girls

I have an appt with the lung doc today; she's not gonna be too happy that I started smoking again, but hopefully she'll understand that it's the circumstances I'm under that started me again;

I know what you said, Bren, but I ordered my groceries online for an in-store pick up.....is there any chance of you taking me? If not, Tina, could you do it? I'm gonna be on a bus all afternoon and just too tired to do it myself. If one of you gals can or cannot, call me on my cell 603-0478; I'm leaving for the bus about 11:40

Anonymous said...

Oh Kathi :( I'm off work at 2:30 and head right up to Solana Beach..then to Carlsbad...won't be home til around 10pm

Kathi said...

Ok, I'm sorry to ask again; just thought it'd be easier if I ordered it online, that way we can be in and out fast, instead of walking up and down the aisles...oh well

Noboyz said...

Kathi, can your IHSS worker pick it up? or bring you? what about when you go to the Lung doctor swing out that way... ?

Steph you must be busy lately with your new job... glad you and Leigh Ann had a great weekend! :)

Tina & Brenda... the pictures are fun!!!

Anonymous said...

I would do it Kathi walking through the stores or picking up...if my schedule allowed...but I'm booked til next Tuesday, either way :( I know you can't wait til then...

Hey Marci...Hope your Sam is ok!! I saw your post to Leighann about you thinking she may be bi-polar also

Tina said...

Hey all! Happy Tuesday.

Nope sorry Kathi - my week is booked - I thought you and your Ihss worker were gonna do that yesterday? Guess Denny's sounded better! YUM! I love Denny's breakfasts!

Getting ready to run to the airport and pick up our India visitors... wheeeee!

Talk with ya all later!

Noboyz said...

Brenda you are busy busy huh! I know the feeling... no time to stop.

we have been questioning... and I guess we have been second guessing it until I saw Leigh Ann's post... and of course KK having ADHD and the PDD.... and Madison on zoloft... I think it would be on my side as well....

Gosh.. parenting is SOOOOO hard...

Anonymous said...

Gosh, parenting is really hard :( Amazing what the brain does to us...thank God for us living in these ages to deal with these things :D and we're strong women!! LOL

Noboyz said...

we are all lucky to be able to compare notes!

I need all the help I can get!

Anonymous said...

We all do..and that's for sure Marci :) Mine may be 22 and 20 but we still deal with big time stuff ..and wonderful to know we are not alone :D

Noboyz said...

Leigh Ann is lucky that Tori has opened up... I am sure that is a big step forward.....

Anonymous said...

Oh my yes...I so admire that :) and to be able to talk about it opening...that's wonderful :D

Tina said...

well... doesnt look like i will be getting to the gym... may climb on the eliptical in my garage... dont know... its sooo dry out.

Leigh Ann said...

Hi everyone!

I made it here at about 3pm, laid down and read until 5pm...ok, dozed a little:)

Then I went to the gym - Yea, I am as shocked as you! LOL!!!

Then showered and walked across the parking lot to this quaint little italian place and had dinner (were not going to go into details - just know that I probably won't be flat next week:)

Now, I am blogging and reading... need to finish Dailen's poncho and start Mackenzie's...

Tina said...

So glad you arrived safely!! When do you head out for the Wedding?

Leigh Ann said...

Hey Tina,

Thanks!

I was going to drive all the way there on Friday, but I think I will stop at the barracks, spend the night and then leave bright and early on Sat...it will make the trip a lot easier and I can unpack some of my stuff:)

But, the doctor has requested all of mom's kids to hear the results of her tests (about the brain damage); if they can wait till Friday, then I will drive straight thru that am...

Tina said...

Well I hope that, if you want to be there for the doctors results, that they can wait...

Are you guys anticipating good news? or ?

Leigh Ann said...

Marci,
I will email you hear shortly... and it IS hard being a mother!

I was blown away when Tori started talking...when I asked hard questions, I was waiting for her to shut down, but she didn't and that made my day.

I have always taken my cues from other parents that I admire that had older children...Steve and Brenda being the first...now I have Tina and You! I couldn't be happier. The hardest thing in the world is parenting an adult. Give me running noses and scrapped knees any day!

Leigh Ann said...

Tina,

I don't think it is good...but, I did make up with my sister. We have all been in contact today. I told them if they want to meet with the doctor before Friday that I totally understand. It sucks but I have the authorization signature for what I am doing down here and I need to see this through...Gosh, that sounds so lame.

Tina said...

Boy isnt THAT the truth...they turn into Big Kids...then teenagers... then adults... Wow...one would hope it got easier, but thats not the case... Different, not easier

Tina said...

No... not lame at all. It sounds like a woman in charge with responsibilities she takes seriously. Good for you LeighAnn and Im really glad you and your sister made up.

I was thinkin I would have to kick her ass...

Leigh Ann said...

LOL! That is funny about kicking her ass. She still could probably use it!

Thanks about the "in charge with responsiblity" comment - it is so hard to decide what to do sometimes.

Tina said...

Hey... you have a great sense of whats right. I admire you for that. Trust yourself...

As for kicking her ass... just say the word. LOL

Leigh Ann said...

How are you and yours doing?

Tina said...

Pretty good. Zachs still bustin butt in school and working at KlasicKids. Plays soccer on Mon, Friday and Saturday nights... Girls are doing ok...9th grade is being okay to them... other than the stupid as hell Volleyball Coach and the fact that she doesnt play Jenna enuff to keep her happy.

Freds good... grumpy tonight...hence why im on the computer. LOL

Noboyz said...

Hey Leigh Ann & Tina....
I'm just getting on right now...
put the baby down and watching a movie with MB....
haven't even started packing anyone... hopefully I'll get in the mood and do that.....

Leigh Ann, your decision wasn't made with out thought.... I would hope they would understand... and I applaud you as well for a tough decision....

Leigh Ann said...

Yes...coaches can be such pains! Rayna doesn't play a lot either, and it just crushes them. Don't they know that our daughters kick ass?

Does Zach like working at Klassic Kids? That makes me feel so old:)

Leigh Ann said...

Hey Marci,
Sent you an email...

Tina said...

He loves working there...and loves Miss Tricia...obviously.

And OH GOD does it make me feel old... I remember Paul taking CARE of zach... shit... doesnt feel like that long ago

..and whats the matter with these damned coaches that they cant see OUR DAUGHTERS are the BEST???

Tina said...

Dont know if i mentioned it...but neither one of my girls plan to try out for HS soccer... boo hoooo

Leigh Ann said...

Stephanie,
Hope your doing good - I know you are busy! Won't be home until Halloween weekend:(

This weekend is the wedding and then I have duty the following weekend.

Tina said...

Hey Marci...sounds like you will be having a nice evening!

Leigh Ann said...

Did they tell you why they didn't want to try out? It is stressful and after Tori and all - even with the scholarship - you have to wonder if it is all worth it.

Tina said...

Because there are too many girls that are "way better than us, mom"

ARRG

Leigh Ann said...

I feel your frustration...damn, it's hard being a kid!

Well, I am off to read before I crash! Talk to you ladies tomorrow and thanks for EVERYTHING!

Brenda, hope you are having a good night. You are busy busy.

Tina said...

Nighty Nite sweetie!!!

Im gonna go see if ole grumpy fred has changed his mood any.. LOL

Kathi said...

Oh, LA; I'm so glad to hear that you made up with your sister...that gives me a lot of relief, believe it not

How IS your mom doing? Is she still kind of responsive, or no? I'll be praying for you all on Friday, or whenever you (they) hear the results

Anonymous said...

Hi everyone...I just got in for the night and wanted to touch base with you all before bed :) Well read and comment anyway LOL

Oh Leighann...Love that you're able to do Italian dinner and the gym and crochet and read :) Wonderful!!! :D You have a full load and your work day ended so peaceful and graceful~ Lot's of love and support as you face the news of your mom!!

Marci...hope your movie was good :) Happy packing!! I'm excited for you all!!

Tina...darn those girls and no soccor :( They are wonderful in anything they do either way but I do know how much it means to the family~ Hope Fred gets over his male PMS LOL

Steph and Kathi...hello and have a great night you night owls!!

Stephanie said...

Dang I missed a lot of posts. I am really busy, trying to impress the new people at work and make myself "valuable". That's tough sometimes, when they don't see your face every day in the office.

Leigh Ann, see you on Halloween!

Peaceful dreams, ladies!

Tina said...

Happy Wed. Everyone! Half way thru another week. This year has FLOWN by. Egads.

Hope ya all have a great day

Anonymous said...

Hello all...Steph...let your work shine :D Impress those folks!! LOL

Hey Tina...gosh, I so know what you mean...the year has flown by..OMG!!!

Tina said...

Drat it all to hell... I have a "fall cold"... damnit!

Leigh Ann said...

Me too, Tina! Woke up Monday with a sore throat and stuffy nose.

This meeting is driving me NUTS!!!

Hoping for a quick and painless couple of days.

Tina said...

Zinc lozenges for the sore throat... works MIRACLES!! And... Im doing the "quils"... DAYquil and NIquil.

hahaha.

Leigh Ann said...

Got it...I am basically here as "support" the number crunchers are doing their magic based on what we hammered out in August - BORING!!!

Tina said...

Well, I have a dumb meeting in 10 minutes...then i think i will go home and climb in bed. Girls have a 1/2 day... so maybe i will pick them up. They have plans...so lunch with their mom is out... but... hey...

Anonymous said...

Oh no Leighann and Tina :( that's awful to get sick!! I'll keep the zinc in mind Tina...hope you feel better...both of you!! Leighann hope your trip goes FAST LOL....keep enjoying those evenings though :)

Anonymous said...

Leighann..like you did last night..I'm about to go out for lunch and eat an incredibly fattening meal LOL....it's a birthday lunch for some co workers at Black Angus again....Mmmmm last night I didn't do well either...went to dinner with some folks and had a fattening dinner too...not as bad as I'm about to do though :D Mmmmm I'm so hungry right now!!!!!!!!!!!! I need a cracker or a cheerio LOL

Tina said...

wow... Black angus AGAIN!! Im so jealous. Which one do you go to eat lunch Brenda?

Anonymous said...

we walk about 2 blocks from work....it's the one along 163, clairemont mesa blvd....I ate waaayyy too much of the table bread and butter LOL

Tina said...

Man i am sooooo jealous...YUMMY.

Anonymous said...

How are you feeling Tina??? Did you go home?? It's soooo very hot outside :(

Tina said...

Yes... im home... took some benadryl... and a zinc lozenge... took zach to breakfast... picked up tia - dropped her off later and now am laying around till time to get jenna and take her to ortho appt.

feel better... but still crappy... i hate summer colds... *sigh*

Anonymous said...

gosh feel better Tina....Leighann, hope you're doing ok with your cold!!!

Tina said...

Hey everyone... guess what IM eating for dinner... BRAWTWURST!! I didnt get enough at Oktoberfest... so i bought some and grilled em. YUMMY... and brenda... i have sourkraut too... ,mmmmmm

Noboyz said...

look at you girls... :)

I wish you could join us this weekend!!!!!

Tina said...

I wish we could too Marci!! *pout*

Noboyz said...

we will plan that New Orleans girl's trip... it will be fun!!!!

wee shall see what dates are the cheapest.... :)

Anonymous said...

Ohhh New Orleans :D Count me in for our trip Marci :) Would loved to have been there with you this weekend too :D

Leighann...did they do the conference on your mom??

Tina...Mmmmmm your dinner sounded dreamy!! Hope your feeling better :)

Stephanie said...

Leigh Ann and Tina, that is exactly how my recent 3-week malady started...terrible sore throat and sinus congestion, and of course I never took anything for it, and it moved on to my ears and chest...apparently I have congenitally small eustachian tubes that will NOT clear...which is one of the reasons I am terrified to fly...AND I am STILL wheezing a little when I try to run.

We have run on the river trails for the past 2 days after everyone got home from school and work, and I am getting back to self as far as my pace...On Tuesday, we got there kind of late and so it was almost full on dark when we got out...I picked up the pace despite the wheezing. I cant imagine being back on those trails by the river after dark. Scary!

Stephanie said...

Tina, brats for dinner! Did you have beer too? I thought you had to have beer if you eat brats and kraut! :)

I am almost a month in to my vegetarian stint. FINALLY some of that extra weight is coming off.

Leigh Ann said...

Stephanie, vegan, uh? Believe me, I couldn't see any extra weight on you. Glad you are seeing some progress:)

Marci, won't be long...

Tina, Hope you feel better - I woke up feeling worse today, dern it.

Brenda, bread...yes, yummy!

They said that Mom has suffered a stroke and it has affected both sides of her brain...it's a wait and see approach...I don't think she is going to make it.

Anonymous said...

Hey Leighann...gosh, your mom sure has gone through so much...will continue my prayers for all of you :) I hope you feel better as the day goes on...I'm sure all you want is a warm bed to sleep it off in ....Yes, I enjoyed lunch ALOT LOL....I rode the bike yesterday and will today and tomorrow...it's nice to change up the routine...next week back to the gym

Steph...are you going to stay vegan??? That's got to be soooo HARD!! For a meateater like me anyway LOL ..I can't imagine being on the trails after dark!!!!!!!! Steve and I did it on accident on the open trails at the Wild Animal Park...they have trails off the beaten path...all we heard were lions...SCARY!!! You know they are in cages but it was still scary LOL

Hello to Marci,Kathi and Tina!! Tina are you feeling better with your cold??

Stephanie said...

Leigh Ann, thanks for the compliment! And you are a teeny thing, too.

I just don't think I was meant to eat all of that protein. It makes me feel sluggish and heavy. But I can't do completely vegan. Animal products are in everything, even bread. I am just not eating meat or dairy.

I have 2 more pounds to go to be at my "healthy weight". My body likes 125...but I like 115. My current regimen is working and I feel pretty good, so I think I will stick with it.

Stephanie said...

Brenda that is scary about the Wild Animal Park. :) I would definitely have been running!

Our posts crossed, but you can see from my last post that I am not vegan, that is WAY to hard. And if you are vegan, and don't consume animals or byproducts, then you have to be on board with the PETA philosophy, etc., etc. I dont believe it is wrong for people to eat meat, just not very healthy in excess!

I did have a moment of near indiscretion last week, while making bacon for BLTs for the kids. It smelled really good, but I refrained! :)

Anonymous said...

Steph is the animal products in the bread eggs?? I imagine after being so disciplined with what you eat, your body would feel sluggish if you have too much of the protein...115!!!!!!!!! WOW!!! That's a dream weight for me LOL and I'm 5'2 1/2 (the half part maybe gone now LOL) maybe 115 for me would still be considered too much since I'm so very short...I have a LONG way to go :(

BTW...HAPPY BOSS DAY TO OUR BOSS LADIES ON THE BLOG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stephanie said...

Leigh Ann, I am thinking about your mom this morning. I hope things turn out for the best. Like Brenda said, she has been through so much...

Brenda, yes on the milk and eggs in bread. Dang it! Giving up bread is SO HARD for me.

Tina said...

Morning ladies...

Today is entertaing Hannah and Manoj day. Wish i was feeling LOTS better rather than a bit better... oh well.

busy day! Hope you alll have a good one!

Anonymous said...

Oh Tina...hang in there...have fun with the groupies from India :) I hope you have fun anyway~

Steph...yes, bread is for sure my downfall...I've been working so hard...espeically the last month at balancing the food groups...and there are times I will still over indulge in the things I love :) But, I'm getting better at paying attention to what I've had the day before and what I'm having the next day...to plan for the day :) Several weeks ago I went through severe exhaustion...that lasted about a week...my body was just worn out...I couldn't shake it...what do you do ...food wise...for times like that...it was really bad...I wasn't sluggish...or sleepy tired...but my body was exhausted...I didn't stop and give in...I kept up the exercise...but Tina saw me and I was in a pretty bad state....then it went away...very odd!!

Stephanie said...

Brenda, you keep a very busy schedule, and you are such a giver. :) I am not surprised that it catches up with you periodically. I really have not found any food that makes exhaustion go away, for me. You know the point where you are just "coffeed out", no amount of caffeine will help. The only thing I can do at that point is lie down as much as possible, and ease up on my workouts. Pushing the fluids also helps me, as I have told you before, I am really not good at staying hydrated, and I know that is so important.

That is great that you are striving for balance with your food groups. I know it is preached to death, but a food journal really does help. But there can't be any cheating...you have to write EVERYTHING down, which really forces you to eat home more often, where you can monitor what is in the dishes you eat. I go by calories. When I have had my alloted calories for the day, I am just done. If I am still hungry at the end of the day, then I consider raising my daily calorie goal a hundred or two.

I am so glad that went away on its own! :)

I don't know if any of this is useful to you. If not, just disregard. :)

Kathi said...

Gosh, LA, your mom HAS been through a lot; but she's a fighter, you can clearly see that; praying for all of you...

Yesterday was kind of a downer day for me again, but feel better today, but then this morning, had a major asthma attack...feeling better from that too; going up to Dad's today

I'll check back in later...

Kathi said...

LA, did they give your mom that TPA drug? I think if they give it within the first three hours of a stroke, recovery's pretty good

Anonymous said...

Kathi....glad you're feeling better...do you know what triggered the asthma attack??? Take care at your dad's house

Steph....you said you count calories?? Gosh I have tried to write things down...I'm so bad at that...I had been sort of monitoring fat grams...but not so much the calories...Huh...I think I'll try to train my brain for the calories....if it works for you...LOL...and it does...then I want to do that :D Thanks on the other help...yes...it all helps!!!!!

Tina said...

Hey everyone!

Brenda... i do calories too... i thought I emailed you a link tothat great calorie counter thingy that would tell you how many you were allowed... maybe not. I will though.

Been busy today. Hoping to get outta here around 3:30 to start the shopping... dinner around 6 - 6:30. Planning to do Callahans... but Hannah's "dietary requirements - ie likes and dislikes " have me a bit concerned. We may end up at Pizza hut... LOL I KNOW she likes pizza.

Anonymous said...

Tina :) I know you've been busy!! Take care this afternoon and evening....

Thanks Steph...for your most excellent menus you emailed me :D

Kathi said...

Don't know what triggered the asthma attack, Bren; probably my emotions (that can have a definite impact on attacks)

At Dad's now, have been for almost two hours; it's come to the point that we need to have someone come in and bathe him; it's just gotten out of our control

Noboyz said...

Hey all! been really busy... and preoccupied as well... :(

interesting tips on the vegetarian diet and such.... so detailed...

Getting close to the weekend... can't wait to see Leigh Ann, Paul and the the younger girls.. .wishing Tori and Rayna could join us....

Kathi, glad you are feeling better, and sometimes it is best to bring in a neutral party to take care of elderly parents...
your dad may listen better...

Tina said...

Just got home... am very tired... will tell you all about the day later. Needless to say they had a GREAT time... and Fred went along and it was so much fun.

Kathi said...

Have a great time this weekend, Marci; give LA, Paul and the girls a hug from me...do you know if they know who their grandma is? I'm sure they do, but was just asking (I'm talking about the younger ones; I'm almost positive Tori and Rayna know who she is)

Tina said...

HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYONE!!!!!

Noboyz said...

I'm lost Kathi, what are you referring to with the girls?

Anonymous said...

I think Kathi thinks you're going to see Leighann's mom...right Kathi? Have a great time Marci and Leighann...can't wait to see all the pics!!

Tina...glad to hear you all had fun and that Fred went oo...can't wait to hear the details!!

Happy Friday!!

Noboyz said...

oh Ok....

I have to get my things packed... haven't started anything yet...
what time will ya'll be in Hammond Leigh Ann?

Brenda, Happy Friday to you and everyone else!
TGIF

Anonymous said...

Go Marci!! time is ticking LOL..
Have fun!!!

Kathi said...

No, I meant do you know if Mackenzie and Dailen know who their grandmother (Leigh Ann's mom) is...I was just curious

What'd the doctors say about your mom today, LA? Can't seem to stop thinking about you today

Noboyz said...

Oh Kathi, I do not know.... that's very personal..

Anonymous said...

Hey all...I just talked to Leighann...she's almost to Jackson, Miss to see her mom...the latest update with her mom is that she's now going downhill pretty fast....then in the morning, Leighann will go on to Lousiana for her brother's wedding and meet up with Paul, Dailen and Mac...there's a chance Rayna may be there....

Anonymous said...

Am I reading this correctly? boiled rice has less calories than steamed rice??

http://www.weightlossforall.com/calories-rice.htm

Kathi said...

Ok, I'm sorry, Marci; I won't ask her

Thank you, Bren, for the update on Leigh Ann's mom; I'm saying prayers as I'm typing this

God Bless you and your family, Leigh Ann

Kathi said...

That doesn't seem right about the rice; I thought steamed rice was WAY better for you; I would think boiled rice would "boil away" all the nutrients

Tina said...

Wow brenda...that is weird. The only thing I can think is that by boiling the rice you are getting rid of some of the "starchy" qualities? As opposed to steaming?

Anonymous said...

That does make sense on both sides LOL...I rinse mine LOTS before steaming...so does that make it less calories?? :)

Noboyz said...

I would think so Brenda!
:)

I rinse mine lots too..... I like my water to look clean!!! ha ha

Kathi said...

That's probably a good idea, Bren; to rinse it; I think that's what my mom did too.

Just got home from Dad's; OMG, am I ever stressed out; but I am REALLY trying to listen to my bros and sis about not letting it get to that point...we're beyond getting him to take a shower/shave/brush teeth...it's now up to the professionals to do it; but he's already being defiant about that, so I'm REALLY concerned about what's gonna happen with that; my brother's going to interview someone in about half hour at his house, and get someone in there tomorrow (keeping fingers crossed and PRAYING)

Kathi said...

PRAISE THE LORD; I have such good news, I don't know where to start.... my sis took my dad to the dentist today, and thankfully he was somewhat cooperative; but asa he had his fill of the polishing, they had to stop, and they didn't want to do too much poking around because of him being on the coumadin...but everything looks ok for now, I think (as far as any gum disease); his insurance was reinstated, which was the BIGGEST stress of all, since he's on the medication for the alz and the coumadin, not to mention all of his doc appts and having to pay for them....PHEW;

And then I just got off the phone with my cousin (my aunt's daughter); it felt so good to talk to her....such a big weight has been lifted from just talking about our moms (I can kind of hear it in her voice also that it felt good to talk about it). I'm gonna call her again in a couple of weeks; STRESS LEVEL IS GOING DOWN!!!

Kathi said...

OH, and we hired someone to come in and give him showers....WOOO HOOOO; my sister said that if he's not compliant with that, plan B is to put him in a home, so I'm praying that he's cooperative

Noboyz said...

well Kathi, my goodness.... it seems like all of this has more or less been on your mom's hands..
maybe yall need to have a family meeting and take turns to take care of dad....
I hate that ya'll may put him in ahome so soon after your mom's death... he's been thru so much changes... poor heart....

Noboyz said...
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Kathi said...

We rotate going there, making him dinner and spending the night; we've basically had that set in stone as we were preparing for Mom's service (among the other zillion things we had to do that week); and yes, I totally agree that Mom ABSOLUTELY had a hand in this

Tina said...

Hey all! Lost our soccer game 3 to 5. Not too bad... spent a few on the phone with Paul, who called to see if we were 2 and 1 or 1 and 2. He was bummed to learn we lost tonight... *sigh* and of course bragged about how proud of LeighAnn he is... of course.

While speaking of proud... MIRAMESA FROSH TEAM KICKED THE CRAP OUTTA LAJOLLA TONIGHT!!! Visit my blog for the details!! I was so sad to have missed 1/2 the 2nd and all of the 3rd games...

Well tomorrow is volleyball tourney... no gym AGAIN... but hopefully Sunday before the commissary!

G'night ladies!!!

Anonymous said...

Tina...you guys played so hard tonight...It was one of the those games :( No worries....next game...for sure!!

Jenna is a super star!!! WTG team!!! What an awsome run today for them!!! WOW!!

Glad you talked to Paul Tina :) Sure miss those guys...

Tina said...

Morning Ladies!!! HAPPY WEEKEND!!!

Getting ready to take jenna to her tournament. She will call us when the team B4 them is almost ready to start and we will go.

Its gonna be a LOOONNG day! LOL

LeighAnn... I hope your family and Marci have a great time at the wedding!

Oh... im flat for the week... thought for sure I would gain after no gym... guess starving myself paid off... hahaha.

Kathi said...

Hey Tina and Bren; WTG on the vball game, Tina;

I talked to LA for a bit yesterday; she said that her mom wasn't doing that well; she was on her way to the house, so couldn't talk long, and I didn't want to ask a lot of questions

Guess we'll hear on Monday how she is

Kathi said...

Everyone must be so busy today; I know where Marci and Leigh Ann are

Tina said...

well it was a VERYYYY long day. up at 6 - to the volleyball tournament by 7:45... and there till 5pm. We lost ... and lost and lost... but we won during bracket play.

Jenna started in ALL games today.. and played the entire time... and was only subed out twice!!! She kicked ass if i do say so myself. Grampa got some great pics... so when he gets them to me... i will post a show.

love to all ... gonna eat chips and drink beer with my honey.

Anonymous said...

Hey Tina and Kathi :) Wow Tina...glad to hear they won one of the games...that was a long day!! Look forward to the pics...
Thanks Kathi for the Leighann update :D Had a busy day out of the house...same for tomorrow, so I'll hopefully check in tomorrow night

I GAINED 2 POUNDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Had to have been the Oktoberfest...the dinner outing and lunch outing LOL...I didn't hold back really at either :( Good for you Tina for being FLAT :D

Tina said...

Hey Brenda... flat was good for me this week... LOL. With no gym at all... it could have been VERY ugly...lol

Happy Sunday everyone. Im gonna watch the charger game then make the ole Costco run and then take my daughters shopping OR hang out here with them and their "boyfriends" who might be coming over to watch a movie... *sigh*

Kathi said...

Ah; boys that they've been hanging out with, but refuse to call them their boyfriends...lol; I totally remember those days; have fun

Morning, Tina and Bren

Wonder when Marci and Leigh Ann'll be back

Stephanie said...

Yes, Kathi. I wonder how the wedding went. I can't believe we didn't hear from those guys yesterday.

Kathi said...

I know; but then again, they were probably too drunk to come on; and I think Leigh Ann said Friday, when I talked to her, that she forgot to bring her laptop up

Anonymous said...

Hey all :)

Have fun Tina eyeing those boys at your house LOL

Hoping you Steph and Kathi are having a nice Sunday :) I just got back from helping out at my friend's nursery...picke dup inlaws at airport (they were in Colorado helping Steve's sister move) now I'm having lunch then heading out to a friend's house to put a glaze on some ceramic pots I made a week or so ago...Ohhh sooo excited!!

Last night Dana's truck was broken into :( they broke the window and stole her sterio...I feel for her...but she left her sterio in the truck..it was asking for it...her sterio is removable and she's suppose to take it out ...SO now my sweet Dana has to save her money to replace the window and sterio...no bailout :(

Tina said...

Brenda... that sucks about Dana's window and stereo. Where was she parked???

Noboyz said...

happy Sunday evening ladies....
we got home about 2 hours ago.. and been unpacking and washing clothes....
the hotel had screwed up internet service.. my laptop wouldn't work... and Leigh Ann and I got WAYYYYYYYYYYY too tipsy to even try to type! we had a blast last night,
Saturday at 3, we met LA, Paul and the girls for lunch at La Caretta... we sat on the patio, it's right by the train station.. and our ears got blown out during lunch, but the kids LOVED it....
we went back to the hotel and the kids all swam.. and then later we met with John Mark and Linda for supper last night.... at Adobe... which ended up being the exact same menu as our lunch!!!! ha ha
it was the same owner!!!!
mexican twice!
today was a little hectic trying to go from 3 rooms to 1, checkout was at 11, and the wedding at 3..
so all 11 of us were getting ready in one room! it was great though...
the wedding was beautiful...
and sweet Dailen was the most breathtaking little flower girl!
precious....

will try and post some pics....

Leigh Ann, has 3 funny ones of me and her... we were VERY tipsy... no ok, DRUNK!!!!!!!

Tina said...

Sounds like a GREAT time Marci!!!

Noboyz said...

yes we had a blast!

I'm getting mad b/c I can't download my pictures! will have to work on it tomorrow....

Sounds like you and yours had a fantastic SOCCER weekend!!!!

Noboyz said...

OK, was able to post some pictures...
i wanted a slide show.. and forgot how to do that!!! LOL

Tina said...

HAHAHAHA... YES... SOCCER... LOL. I forgot about that until JUST NOW. Thats so damn funny!

Tina said...

Oh marci the pictures are LOVELY!!!

Kathi said...

Glad you had fun, Marci; welcome back; I'll go now and look at the pictures...did you get any of the wedding?

Anonymous said...

Ohhh must go see pictures!!!!!!!!!!
Welcome back girls!! Glad you too had a good time with all the family :D

Kathi said...

How's your mom, Leigh Ann? Did the doctors say anything other than what you've already shared?

Noboyz said...

Kathi, really no change right now on her mom...
all of her sisters were at the wedding and they took a picture of the 4 of them together. :)

she is driving to Pensacola this morning, and Paul was heading out to Tenn. with the girls.

and I am whooped!!! so tired.... I went to bed last night at 9:15 and could hardly wake up at 6:30 this morning!!!!!

Tina said...

Happy Monday ladies!

Hey Marci... I bet you are pooped out!!! Busy Busy weekend! I am so glad that Rayna got to go! Hope you get some rest honey!!

Noboyz said...

no rest!!! at work... ha
maybe I can close my office door and snooze!!!

how is your day going Tina?

Anonymous said...

Hey all...Marci I sure hope get get some rest tonight...that was an action packed weekend....I'm sure Leighann is pooped to...I think she mentioned she was going right to work this AM...UGH!!

Tina...how goes it :) I'm at home today...sharing my vehicle with those who need shuffling LOL...yes, the truck was broken in in front of the house....she actually parked across the street in from of Gene and Perla's house...but it's all the same to me :) I will still meet you at the gym though....I'll go from there to bible study afterwards

Kathi...how goes you??

Hey Steph...Leighann...Crystal and Rima

Tina said...

Well Ms Marci... if ya cant catch a nap at work (*grin*) Then you go to bed early and tell ole' Mike to LEAVE U ALONE!! hahaha

HI Brenda... i just realized i sent you an email to the wrong addy... *sigh* so i forwarded it.
THAT SUCKS that it was right there by your house!! I keep telling zach to make sure he locks his...and arms the alarm... darn kids anyway!!

Noboyz said...

Brenda... that sucks about the truck getting broken into.... and right there in front of you and your neighbor's houses!!!!
scary!

Ha! I told him last night.. he was looking for a bruisin!!!! LOL

Noboyz said...

Steph & Kathi, whats going on with you two?

Kathi said...

I've had a busy morning...went to the doctor to get follow up bloodwork, saw a doctor (not mine) for ear pain and found out I have a pretty narly ear infection :( and I got a flu shot...been up since 5am, thinking the lab opened at 7; BUT NO; opens at 8:30, so had to wait around for a bit, but that's ok; filled up my morning...got home about an hour ago; now it's nap time before my ihss worker and resource counselor comes *sigh*

Noboyz said...

well well... you have been busy this a.m. gosh!
an ear infection on top of everything else!!! OUCH!

Kathi said...

You can say that again (but don't...lol)

Anonymous said...

wow wee Kathi...that is an OUCHY!!

Dana's window man is coming in a few minutes...looks like they don't need my car today after all :) Oh well...at least I'm doing house chores so the day isn't wasted

Tina said...

YAY!!! Window guy is quick! Nice work!

Noboyz said...

Kathi, you are lucky I didn't double post like normal!! LOL

Brenda that was quick... I am impressed... did you make Tina call and threaten them??? ha...
just picking sweet Tina!!!!

Anonymous said...

LOL...that's funny Marci :) No Dana set it up and now all is good for her vehicle and about 7 guys at work/customers have sterio systems they don't need LMAO tooooo funny!!

Tina said...

Well she is soooo pretty... she just smile at those guys and they will RIP OUT their stereo systems and give them to her!!! LOL

Oh Marci! Im so not insulted... Im the "enforcer" in our little group... according to Steph. Remember that?? LOL

Noboyz said...

that is too much! Yes, they would probably install a t.v. and anything else as well....
:)

I knew you wouldn't be insulted...

Kathi said...

Yes, Bren; it is a big ouchy; I can't even frickin CHEW, it hurts to bad

Stephanie said...

Yes, I rest easily at night, knowing that the Enforcer is on
duty... :)

Anonymous said...

LOL...so very funny everyone :)